Marriage as Covenant in an Age of Contracts
Marriage as Covenant in an Age of Contracts Why permanence, promise, and faithful love still matter in a culture shaped by consumer expectations. Introduction: When Marriage Is Treated Like a Contract Many couples today enter marriage with the best of intentions, yet often carry unexamined assumptions shaped by modern life. We are formed by contracts: employment agreements, service subscriptions, rental terms, and digital policies that can be revised, exited, or canceled when expectations are no longer met. Over time, this way of thinking quietly shapes how marriage is imagined—not always consciously, but powerfully. In pastoral conversations, one often hears questions framed in contractual language: Am I still getting what I signed up for? Is this relationship still working for me? Such questions are understandable. They arise from real struggles, disappointments, and unmet hopes. Yet Christian tradition consistently proposes a deeper vision of marriage—one not grounded in...